How to Dress as a Guest to an Indian Wedding

Indian weddings are some of the most beautiful sights, and always a ton of fun. In this case you should always be considerate of culture, avoid anything that would come off as cultural appropriation.

Generally, they love sharing their culture and having others learn and participate in it with them. Just be sure when you are looking for items to wear that they are the correct thing, and even more points if you find things actually made by people who are part of the culture.

What to Expect at an Indian Wedding

Knowing whether the wedding is North or South Indian will make a difference, so if you are not sure please ask so you can be prepared. The couple may choose to do the traditional wedding plan, or create a fusion of what works best for them.

Every couple is different, but overall here are some things you can expect at an Indian wedding.

One big thing about Indian weddings is that they are more than one day long. Some can go up to sixteen day, but usually you are looking at 4 days or less. The next thing to know is that you should wear colors, bright and pigmented colors. You should avoid red because that is generally the color brides wear.

The more jewelry the better! You should expect a very luxurious ceremony, and for everyone to look amazing. There will be tons of food, and lots of games. If you’re a westerner, or just have never experienced an Indian wedding, then you are in for a complete surprise.

It is usually a huge culture shock, and it will really make you appreciate their culture; you are going to experience something you will never forget.

What to Wear for Different Ceremonies

Traditionally, the wedding will last for about three days. This is specific to Hindu ceremonies (will not be the same for other cultures). The first day is the Ganesha Pooja which takes place at their home with close family and friends. For this a casual outfit is more acceptable.

Then the second day is the Mehendi ceremony; which is when everyone is involved for an evening of celebrating and usually the bride gets her henna. This again is a more casual event when comfort is prioritized. The third day morning will be the wedding ceremony and then jumps into the reception in the evening.

This event will be where you want to wear your more formal attire. Overall, you should plan to bring three outfits, and dress for comfort because there will be a lot of dancing.

Indian Wedding Guest Attire

As a guest you have a couple options on what to wear. You should consider if the wedding is being held in India because then you should go to the traditional route and get one of the following (women): Lehenga, Saree, or Salwar Kameez. Then men can look into: Krishna Mehta Kurta or Sherwani.

However, if you prefer to go less traditional then long colorful dresses and colorful suits are also great choices. If you’ve got colors, and maybe some embroidered designs then you’ll be good.

You can also go for a pant suit, and for any of these you can incorporate accessories like sashes. Main thing to remember is that they will be more than happy if you choose to wear their traditional garments, and so helpful if you have problems wrapping or tying them. Plus, when else will you get the chance to participate in this tradition; you should go all out.